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RE: multiple orgasme issues - 5/23/2007 12:44:28 PM

TigressFL

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I come quite easily from clit stimulation, but have a much better orgasme if there is both vaginal and clitoral stimulation...

I have only on very very few occasions come from only vaginal stimulation but its been rare, but absolutly GOOD

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Use an egg then when you cum move the egg off your clit but keep it moving over all other areas of your pussy. This will give your clit a break but help keep you stimulated so when your clit relaxes from being so sensative you can got right back to your clit and often cum again.

When it comes to internal or G-stop orgasms during sex I have found that if my ass is lifted in the air (with pillows or the foam wedges) during a type of missionary position (though are upper bodies are not touching) that I can either feel it hit my spot or hold the person still deep inside me while I move to find the spot. Works like a charm for me. Some say they can cum while on top or in doggie, however, I have not been able to thus far.

Good Luck!

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RE: multiple orgasme issues - 5/23/2007 12:44:59 PM

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i wish i could have multiples

     Honestly, men have had success in learning how to have multiple orgasmic moments; as have women, through many of the same tactics. One great tactic is Release Denial. Many have learned that through such a technique the body can be trained to enjoy the heights of passion in ways that few believe.
     Often the most effective technique is to bring oneself to the brink of release; then deny such a goal; then repeat often. It is one of the major appeals to Release Denial held by male submissives who have studied certain literature.
     I have found on at least two occasions that such has worked for females as well.

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RE: multiple orgasme issues - 5/23/2007 12:49:20 PM

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Hi Tigress

thank u for yr suggestion. I also fibd it very hard to come from being on top, it is one of my least favorite positions... But have found that if I sit on top with my legs wrapped around my partners waist while she sits up and holds me tight works quite well....

On orgasme denial... Have tried this also, and wat to experience more, but find that I get to a point where I get "over it" and my body gives up and I can't come at all...

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RE: multiple orgasme issues - 5/23/2007 1:10:17 PM

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As I was attempting to suggest, it is something that works for many; not implying it is the only tract. There are many books on the subject, because there are many paths. Enlightenment and self awareness is not a one lane highway … it is traveling as many roads until you find your way home.

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RE: multiple orgasme issues - 5/23/2007 1:13:46 PM

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On orgasme denial... Have tried this also, and wat to experience more, but find that I get to a point where I get "over it" and my body gives up and I can't come at all...

Yup :) I do the same. this is the reason why I can take or leave oral. I never have them with oral, and eventually the moment moves on (no matter how great it feels)

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RE: multiple orgasme issues - 5/23/2007 1:19:53 PM

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i would love to have so many that i actually pass out...that would be a major thrill, at least i think so.

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RE: multiple orgasme issues - 5/23/2007 4:31:12 PM

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I've only started reading on tantric techniques, more as a pass time then any actual study, but one article I tripped over might help you to 'rewire' or even as a practice to help the body relax for further stimulation.

http://www.submissiveloving.com/orgasm.html

It would obviously require some research on your part, but if all else fails might be worth investigating.

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RE: multiple orgasme issues - 5/23/2007 10:39:27 PM

Elorin

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I recommend two books.
One, The Multi-Orgasmic Man, for mindset. The second, and most important, is a book called The One Hour Orgasm.

Good luck.

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RE: multiple orgasme issues - 5/23/2007 10:48:40 PM

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