References 'in the Lifestyle'([:'(]) are worth nada - nil - zilch - zero.
In other words - nothing.
Otherwise, wouldn't that be similar the favouritism you were just complaining about?
If you are in with the 'in-crowd' you are an autofavourite?
Thank the godz that isn't played around here.
Paying for food means that other factors and peoples energies are involved. Whether one pays with money or 'in kind' is irrelevant. Relationships are your own responsibility. If someone wants to make money from such, that is up to them - I don't agree with it because it just leads to moaning and bitching on 'that photo was a lie' when instead it should have been 'I should have taken more personal responsibility for myself and been sure that photo wasnt a lie'. So using food as an analagy does not work as a comparrison.
Myspace doesn't have a set 'policy' that works either. Bondage images are allowed. Even darker images are allowed - including blood, edgeplay and toys.
Nor does B.com. - not one that works anyway.
The difference between B.com and myspace/CM is that you do not pay for myspace or CM.
These are two free sites.
Inconsistancy is everywhere. I would rather not pay for it is all. And if I really do not like somewhere, I just don't attend - be that a club, munch, website or supermarket - It really is that simple.
Peace
*edit to add - clarity does not always bring happiness. Simply realisation.