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How to spark interest in your profile - 5/19/2007 5:48:51 PM

EasyE

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Hi all,

I have had a few past relationships and want to find someone new. I realize, as I have been here a while, that it takes time. I was wondering if anyone had any pointers for getting people more interested in you and get some more emails flowing in. I realize I need some more pics gonna work on that soon. If you have sugestions for me in particular do tell.

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/19/2007 6:00:55 PM

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Participate on the boards and, even better, branch out into your local community.

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/19/2007 6:05:08 PM

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Methinks I've already helped you some.... but...you have a couple of typos on your profile...just a couple..but some people are sticklers for that. Otherwise, new pics and I ditto the above poster.

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/19/2007 11:14:27 PM

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Get known. Posting on boards is going to do more than your advertisement will. This is where like-minded people will read what you right and go "huh...yeah I agree with that. I wonder what he thinks about..." If people take an interest in you they'll be more likely to look at your profile. Beyond that I'm not sure what else you can do. Make sure you have honest and accurate information and, as said above, watch for typos. Keep it neat and clean.

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/19/2007 11:18:54 PM

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OMG...you mean ones sparkling personality doesnt automaticially shine through on ones profile??....DAMN IT!!!

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 1:46:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav
OMG...you mean ones sparkling personality doesnt automaticially shine through on ones profile??....DAMN IT!!!

Now Now.. don't poke fun at the ones that read more like dimmly lit light bulbs in a dark musty closest! :-)

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 2:43:53 AM

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Re-post your profile as a young, attractive, inexperienced fem/sub who's willing to try *anything* at least twice. See if your email improves then.... lol

Or if that's too scarey, just post yourself as female - that should pare it right back to about 10 a day....

Focus.

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 2:53:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

Re-post your profile as a young, attractive, inexperienced fem/sub who's willing to try *anything* at least twice. See if your email improves then.... lol

Or if that's too scarey, just post yourself as female - that should pare it right back to about 10 a day....

Focus.

LOL!!! That tickled me. . .

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 5:21:36 AM

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It's always more practical to meet people in real, than to communicate over electronic media and 'hope' that everything turns out to be the way you have been imagining thus far.

Like Mistress Elise Sutton advises, find someone whom you are able to share good chemistry with, and then bring out the submissive in you...it usually works out better. In my case, it got me a truly adorable Queen.

Nonetheless, this being a forum of like-minded people, keep your profile concise, pictures clear and spelling mistakes away! And yes, as suggested by other members, the boards will keep you alive and floating in this wonderful online community!

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 5:28:52 AM

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Cock shots.

Big, huge cock shots.

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 5:34:48 AM

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Oh, and be sure it actually IS your cock...because, we as women will be wanting to see it for proof that it really is YOUR cock....*wink*

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 7:09:05 AM

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E

you have been on here basically asking the same question several different ways.... should you post a pic, is this pic ok, how do I meet others, should I meet others... on & on

Advice has been offered & I'm wondering if you have ever taken any of it & applied it

You only have 41 posts... it's not hard to go back & check the theme of your posts & the type of advice that has been offered.

For one... have you ever made it out to meet others that are local to you just for social interaction?

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 7:14:07 AM

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My suggestion would be to read and post in forums NOT themed around improving your desirability. The more often you ask the same questions, the more desperate you are beginning t sound. That is not an apealing thing, and you are creating the problem for yourself. Instead of looking for answers on how to make things better, read through the forums, see what is being said and get your information that way. Weigh in on some subjects there so people can learn your opinions. Show those that might be seeking that there is more to yourslef than an insecure boy who is completely absorbed in marketing himself.

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 7:31:49 AM

DrkJourney

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Hmmmm....what a novel way to get people to look at your profile....NOT

I remember another guy that would post a question just like this to get people to look at his profile. Then when the post and emails died down, he'd post another question, with just slightly different wording.

Come on dude, actually join the forums....talk....or here's a thought actually read profiles and those that are close to what you are looking for write them a personal email. Seems like you want people to come to you and you not have to do any of the work.

ok....sorry for the mini rant....but I guess this post was one of those camel back breaker things.....LOL

Honestly, I do wish you luck....don't sit on some throne waiting for people to come to you, get out there and mingle

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 7:40:22 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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*groans* ok i'll bite the bait this morning. you've been here longer than me and no one has taken any interest in you. do you actually think posting a "please view my profile" thread is going to help you?

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 8:13:50 AM

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Have a F/friend help Y/you rewrite Y/your profile and choose Y/your photos -- having a second opinion and a new eye. Even the order in which the photos are uploaded makes a difference. i hope this helps.

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 9:13:00 AM

Viridana

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I haven't read your profile but in general profiles who are nothing more than negative rants: "no posers, fakers, bitches blah blah" etc., aren't really a good bait to be honest. Focus on your good qualities and think about what kind of profiles you find interesting and do the same.

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 9:47:03 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

*groans* ok i'll bite the bait this morning. you've been here longer than me and no one has taken any interest in you. do you actually think posting a "please view my profile" thread is going to help you?

Hm, I haven't actually tried that so I'll give it a go here, "PLZ! VU MY PROFILE!" Anything?

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 9:50:25 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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it certainly worked for me - i like how you used the dark shadow to conceal your face ...i'm such a sucker

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RE: How to spark interest in your profile - 5/20/2007 2:24:53 PM

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Well, regularly posting here seems to help, and so does hanging out in the chatrooms, but the sad fact is, you're a dude, which is a mark against you, and a switch, which winnows out a whole lot more potential partners on this site. If you were bisexual, you would have what I like to call the "Trifecta of Rejection". You won't get approached very often, and you won't even get a response to your emails very often. Chin up, and don't take it personally. Just hang out, get to know the regulars, and let your real personality shine through whenever you can, and you ought to do okay.

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