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Copulo -> RE: Range your level.. (5/19/2007 1:13:34 PM)
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A lot of what you are talking about here is way beyond newbie level and although I know you mean well, I feel I need to contradict some of the things you have said.
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ORIGINAL: MasDom
A few things I know myself...
Not all wax is created equall....
Paraffin and bee's wax has a nice low temperature.
Not so. Pure paraffin wax candles melt at around 115*f . Soy wax melts at around 120*f but beeswax melts at around 145*f and can cause serious burns.
Stay away from beeswax.
Since it doesn't have to much free oil content,
it doesn't hold its heat for longer then needed.
So for a close up erotic experience I suggest always starting with these simple and pure forms of wax...
Leave any candles you may find in an erotic sex shop for later after you've experimented with some of the simple store bought candles..
Because these candles some times are mixed with oils for the extra sensation caused by the slightly scalding oil.
To be honest most newbies aren't ready for this,
And most masochist wannabees really don't know just how far
things may go when it comes to pain....Damage...
These chemical or oil based candles will indeed causes some damage.
Maybe even burn or scald you...
The ones at the sex shop not really any better.
I would call them mid level for the people who have grown a little more wanting in the pain department..
So its just a simple rule...
Start with what every one knows..
Just typical wax, and don't be afraid to openly ask your partner how she or he is enjoying it.
I,m sure since your just starting out as a couple
theirs an understanding that until your more assured of what they can handle, your going to take it slow.
Now as for you little slaves out thier...
If I warn you your not ready for something.....
If I have to stand up on the bed holding the candle to the sealing, just because you cant take the pain.
Or your afraid of being burned...
Then trust me and just let me buy a simple, and safer candle.
Laughs as he reminisces.
Also needle play has certain locations that are unsafe.
A few spots I know of are the small of the back,
If your going straight in...
The inner thigh as well for the same reasons.
over the pelvis for woman and men...
and on the front of the neck, and wrists...
So basically if it can be punctured or stabbed.
If it could overly bleed and kill you...
Just stay away from it.
You'll notice even the people doing suspension have specific locations for piercing the muscle.
Suspension is NEVER through the muscle
But thats all obvious isn't it...
A few warning for newbies...
Start with small objects that are smooth and soft for anal.
Their is always a possibility of damage involved..
And its always wise to work your way up in things.
If your getting into cutting,
you should always start with little scratches in the top dermal layer of skin.
They will still enjoy it and bleed.
But like anal, one must always start small...
Electrical play should always be learned from those already doing it...
I shouldn't have to warn you the complications of heart murmurs, Electrocution, serious burns or anything that may be associated with this type of play...
The devices used and every thing involved is specifically for the safety, and desired outcomes.
Some times putting water over a person could be a good thing-- forcing the shock to even out, And at other times it could be fatal...
Are you talking about putting water over someone who is receiving electric shock?
--((So in this play always seek those who have that much needed experience.))---
And if your going to begin toying with it regardless.
I suggest two sticky pads from the hospital and a D volt rite on her pussy lips..
Use the wire ((on the connector)) to cause small shocks then take it back off.
You mean wire her up to the mains?
prolonged shocks f certain kinds may cause burning at the leads..
All toys made for deeper shock are Field based.
Meaning almost like a static charge meant to discharge into the body, or surrounding flesh..
These few objects should always be made by those with the correct applicatable knowledge..
As for suffocation play...
it can always go wrong...
But my methods are from experience since I always end up with girls who enjoy it..
God forbid I ever end up killing one of them..
Lol I think there could be a high chance of that
For longer suffocations use something like a thin cloth that has a lot of holes in it... maybe a pillow that you cold really breath through... satiny looking but really just hole filled thread with a lot of normal cotton in it.
Now their are a few rules to how this is done..
And newbies should never risk this...
So why are you telling them then and giving them tiny dribbles of information?
This is one of those fetishes that most certainly will go bad eventually if not the first time...
The rules are simple though..
((-Its play not real.....I cant stress this enough...-))
You don't have to really add force, or actually throttle them.
Most of these people involved are willing enough to act like they cant really breath...
Any given force however will actually kill them...
The pillow can be breathed through as if its not even their.
However if you compress the cotton in any way it becomes and actual suffocating device...
So you never push down really....
Thats a horrible mistake to make...
Another is actually throttling their throats.
A garret or something around the neck
will actually compress, and even damage the wind pipe.
A small force like with the pillow is to much.
if they want it bad enough, like before they just play along.
Needing only enough force on the throat to feel like something is being done to them..
And like the pillow their is no way to tell how much is to much.
I suggest never getting into this..
However for some woman or men watching horror movies.
Well theirs a big draw to it...Its an emotional thing.
Now I don't have to tell you you should watch them and figure out when their actually suffocating.
Be wary of the items used tightening on their own or things like that...
But if you have to do it...
You've been warned,
And I like the rest suggest just play at first.
Role play the even, and nothing more...
Because your going to learn that their are a lot of weird things like this along the way.
Rape fantasy, Hypnosis, breath play, you name it.
And well think of it like a meat grinder.
Some times your the big chunk that makes it through.
But really most of the time your the piece that gets chewed up.
Mistakes can kill in all this..permanently scar.
A simple thing like an oil candle can leave Burns that will last for life...
So talk around and if you have to do one of these.
Learn to respect its real nature...
And theirs nothing wrong with being a little lame the first time.
Don't be pushed to make all your sexual acts emotionally perfect.
Have to play the perfect Dom so she doesnt question you.
Some times the greatest satisfaction you can give some one is being honest, and showing concern..
OK well...
Hope that helps.
I request all those people out their who have stories, or experience like this to post it here..
best regards Ken...
((Warning, All play of these types have a risk of injury))
Look Im really sorry but I only got half way through your post and was not sure if I should laugh or cry.
You started of light with a bit of wax play and then moved on to the most edgy stuff. You keep saying only do this with an expert but if its an expert that is doing it then why would they need telling how its done? A lot of the info is wrong and the other info is very half hearted
A little bit of knowledge is a dangerous thing.
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