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just domestic? - 1/19/2006 5:47:26 PM

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Being gay, i am not seeking male slaves for sex.. obviously.. but have written in my profile that although this, and although i have no timeor wish for anything full time.. I will consider mail from male subs for domestic and other non sexual service.. and have gotten more than a few emails... and this is all fine and dandy..

but does anyone have any experience with this.. I have a hard time beleaving that a male sub would be *happy* "just" serving as f.ex. a sissy maid when the "promise" of sex is not there..

just looking for views on genuity of these mails, first of all, and if anyone has experience with having a domestic p/t sub.. and how did u work things out?

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RE: just domestic? - 1/19/2006 6:47:47 PM

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Being gay, i am not seeking male slaves for sex.. obviously.. but have written in my profile that although this, and although i have no timeor wish for anything full time.. I will consider mail from male subs for domestic and other non sexual service.. and have gotten more than a few emails... and this is all fine and dandy..

but does anyone have any experience with this.. I have a hard time beleaving that a male sub would be *happy* "just" serving as f.ex. a sissy maid when the "promise" of sex is not there..

just looking for views on genuity of these mails, first of all, and if anyone has experience with having a domestic p/t sub.. and how did u work things out?

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RE: just domestic? - 1/19/2006 7:28:19 PM

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i think i would have to pobnt out as well, that since i am still at uni, the possibility of this bein anything else than part time is slim to none... and the chance of it bein a live in thing nil.

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RE: just domestic? - 1/20/2006 6:47:01 AM

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I've never been with a male or female who was SOLELY into domestic service, but I have been with some where that was a large and key component of their service. As long as you are up front with your situation and expectations, as long as they seem to fit well to that and as long as all the other aspects of a good relationship are in place, go for it.

Part time might actually make it easier in some ways.

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RE: just domestic? - 1/20/2006 8:02:48 AM

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quote:

I have a hard time beleaving that a male sub would be *happy* "just" serving as f.ex. a sissy maid when the "promise" of sex is not there..

it can happen. it might be rare, but it can happen. there are folks(born female OR male) that find a sense of fulfillment in service outside of the realm of sexual encounters. just make sure you are perfectly clear with what you seek and good luck to you on your search!

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RE: just domestic? - 1/20/2006 8:51:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Notanaddict

Being gay, i am not seeking male slaves for sex.. obviously.. but have written in my profile that although this, and although i have no timeor wish for anything full time.. I will consider mail from male subs for domestic and other non sexual service.. and have gotten more than a few emails... and this is all fine and dandy..

but does anyone have any experience with this.. I have a hard time beleaving that a male sub would be *happy* "just" serving as f.ex. a sissy maid when the "promise" of sex is not there..

just looking for views on genuity of these mails, first of all, and if anyone has experience with having a domestic p/t sub.. and how did u work things out?

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