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Trust Betrayed by Master - 12/1/2004 3:47:28 PM

Luv4u

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How can a submissive truly trust again after her Master has broken the trust that is so important to her?
Master promised me that he would be with only me and not look for another. I have since found out that he has been searching online for others. I have talked to him about this and I keep getting promises that it will never happen again but it has happened 4 times since.
He has told me that I am the one and he is so happy with me and everything about our relationship. But yet it keeps happening.
Do you think trust can ever be rebuilt? Am I stupid in even wanting to give myself to him fully? How can he continue to do this to the one that gives him everything she has... heart, soul, mind, body, honesty? Thank you for your comments.

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RE: Trust Betrayed by Master - 12/1/2004 4:03:27 PM

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Is this Master an online one?

If so, no need to worry because what you had wasn't real!

How many times do ya have to be hit with a fish to smell something fishy? He did this 5 times???????????????

I am also a bit confused by your profile, it appears you are looking as well?

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RE: Trust Betrayed by Master - 12/1/2004 4:20:29 PM

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Wow Insideyourmind.. your quite the private eye lol... But I do agree with you on this one. It sounds like she looking as well.

No on the fliphand its not easy getting over a betrayal. I was hurt by someone I served some time ago and it still bothers me sometimes. But you just have to get up, dust yourself off and get back on track. No use crying over spilled milk.... it was probably sour anyway.

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RE: Trust Betrayed by Master - 12/1/2004 5:06:16 PM

cariad

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being lied to in the past by a Master, it was something i could NOT get over and finally asked for release because He kept promising it wouldn't happen again.

finally if you are looking as it states in your profile this slave does NOT see the problem with Him looking......"JMO"

however if you are no longer looking and this keeps happening this slave would tell Him to shove off and do it respectfully......again "JMO"

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RE: Trust Betrayed by Master - 12/1/2004 7:00:44 PM

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The answer is just plain NO. Once a trust is broken it will always be there in your mind....not necessarily when things are good, but you can bet when things are not running smoothly it will be right there large as life.

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RE: Trust Betrayed by Master - 12/1/2004 9:05:51 PM

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If he's betrayed you and continues to, you need to let him go, and try to find someone you can trust and wants similar things you do.
Unless you're hooked, and neet to take it until you can no longer, than time will heal.
Good luck, Ms M

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RE: Trust Betrayed by Master - 12/1/2004 11:03:56 PM

Estring

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Do you think trust can ever be rebuilt?

Yes it can, but not with him.

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RE: Trust Betrayed by Master - 12/2/2004 9:40:07 AM

Nvernilla

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I think your dedication here is remarkable, but pointless. If he can not be trusted it will probably be ever thus. Are you sure that this is occouring? If so I'd suggest you start looking too...Mike

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