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For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 12:59:26 AM   
Mauigurrlxxx


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Status: offline 		How do you define the perfect,or near perfect, slave? (i.e. intellect, ethics, emotionally impaired, big boobs?)
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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 1:31:13 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		Same way as I defined the "perfect" vanilla partners I once dated - mutual chemistry and connection. Only difference now is she has to be submissive for me to even be interested.

And preferably on the petite side in the boobs department; but it's not a deal breaker.... lol

Focus.

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 2:35:46 AM   
Slaveless1


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Status: offline 		since there is never perfection , I will dwell on later one....

The one that does as she is told, she has pride in her abilities to serve, has pride in herself,a willingness to go above what is expected from time to time, I persaonlly have to be attracted to her. I am sure there is a lot more but these are some the more importantt ones to me....................

big booobs?????????????????? dman straight gurl................course I like boobs hehehehehe

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 6:19:15 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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ORIGINAL: Mauigurrlxxx
(i.e. intellect, ethics, emotionally impaired, big boobs?)

I think you hit all the major points here. LOL No two Masters are alike. Some want high intellect, some don't give a damn about intellect. Some want a prefect ten in body while others just want a warm body. It's based on indivisual wants and needs.

Me personally, I'm with Slaveless on the service oriented. She also should have a personality that condusive to a multi-person home.

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 6:32:11 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		For ME, the perfect slave would be independently wealthy, a pilot, best friend with Joss Whedon, a chef, no kids, not married, and be unable to resist the dominance of a 5'4" green eyed chick from the ghetto.

That's a good start at least.

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 7:16:51 AM   
TypeWriter


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Status: offline 		I am sure I will take the heat here but my little one is the closest thing to perfect I can imagine.

There was a time in my life I stopped beleiving that a woman like her could exist and so now that I am with her she is better then i could have even imagined.

I am one lucky Dom!

M

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 8:03:40 AM   
Padriag


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Status: offline 		Perfection is in the eyes of the dominant.

The only thing any dominant can do is say what they personally like... and other than statistical information, it really has no bearing on what another dominant my like.

For me personally I like someone intelligent with an active mind and imagination, passion and creativity are very important, warmth, affectionate, reliable and trustworthy (so ethics is right up there on priorities). Physically... I prefer brunettes with green eyes and maybe a nice C cup... but that matters to me a lot less than their personality. If she's blond, blue eyes and a B cup with a scintilatting personality, that's fine by me. Absence of anger, I definitely do not like someone who is angry a lot. No smokers and no drug use. Arrogance is another turn off, humility is a plus.

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 8:07:54 AM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		Actually Type writer, I can't imagine why you would get any heat for that post, except maybe from the jealous.


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Whenever I think about you
And all the things we could do
A touch of lace, a taste of leather
And I do so love you
Life is never what it seems
And love comes on us all unseen
So I dance upon your tether
Your kiss will set me free
~MvD

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 8:13:50 AM   
amayos


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Status: offline 		In endless love, selfless and fully willing to sacrifice anything for my happiness. Willing to give up her soul, cast away all her possessions and ties to follow me anywhere, or suffer anything for my gain. And she loves and loves, without end; did I mention that already?

Those are the ideal ingredients for a slave...and rare they are.

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 8:13:57 AM   
Evanesce


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quote:

How do you define the perfect,or near perfect, slave? (i.e. intellect, ethics, emotionally impaired, big boobs?)


Same way I'd define the perfect Master - they're the one who fits every area of my life like they were custom-ordered.

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 12:50:45 PM   
Archer


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Status: offline 		Well perfection really isn't an option, a really good match might be.

For me the best slaves would be ones who can contribute to my life in ways I find valuable. Reasonably bright certainly since I prefer to stear the boat not provide the entire skilled crew duties myself, LOL. Ethics that closely match my own are a must since their actions will be reflecting on me. While emotional stability is a must that does not preclude people with some level of emotional baggage, so long as it's manageable.

As already stated the all important CHEMISTRY is a big factor and can make up for alot of shortcommings.

Overall though what makes a slave valuable to one Owner may make them less valuable for another Owner.

I always tell slaves looking to improve their value / attractiveness to an unknown future Owner to make their on their own learning reflect the kind of needs the master they image might have. Also skills that make a slave self supporting and or valuable to a household's accounts. (ie knowing how to keep a house budjet, Knowing how to invest money, Knowing how to do home making/ basic home repairs) are almost always valuable.

Worth exactly what you paid me for it

In Leather

Archer

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 5:44:21 PM   
SadistDaddy


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Status: offline 		I'm a sadist. My formula for the perfect slave includes "sweetie" aspects which balance and counter my sadistic side. Yin and yang.

An ideal slave would possess intellect and use it in her daily life as well as her service. I like a slave that has a big heart and is always honest and trustworthy. Creativity is a plus as it can be used to devise new ways to please. This leads to pro-active submission. By this, I mean for the slave to submit to her Master in ways she devises on her own as well as those submissions which are enacted by the master. Ofcourse, the most important requirement is open communication.

In a 24/7 relationship, the excelling slave would be an excellent cook and house organizer.

Physically, I prefer voluptuous brunettes with waist long hair. Using a slaves own hair to restrain her is a kink of mine.

Beyond talk of perfection, anyone offering true submission deserves a chance to improve and grow under the lash of a patient master. In time, perfection may appear.

< Message edited by SadistDaddy -- 1/18/2006 5:56:05 PM >

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 6:02:18 PM   
Littlepita


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quote:

ORIGINAL: amayos

In endless love, selfless and fully willing to sacrifice anything for my happiness. Willing to give up her soul, cast away all her possessions and ties to follow me anywhere, or suffer anything for my gain. And she loves and loves, without end; did I mention that already?

Those are the ideal ingredients for a slave...and rare they are.


That was great!

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/18/2006 7:04:23 PM   
wetrope


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Status: offline 		I cant believe these posts, what wuses, such political correctness, you mean I am the only Dom who absolutely adores big boobs and thinks it is an important part of a near perfect slave!!
Yeah and all the other stuff above 2.

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/19/2006 1:36:23 AM   
Petruchio


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Status: offline 		Fidelity.
Thoughtfulness.
Listening to what I like.
Being nurturing when I need it.
Being sexy when I don't.
Loving.

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/19/2006 2:39:50 AM   
Focus50


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quote:

ORIGINAL: wetrope

I cant believe these posts, what wuses, such political correctness, you mean I am the only Dom who absolutely adores big boobs and thinks it is an important part of a near perfect slave!!
Yeah and all the other stuff above 2.

Lol I think if all men preferred big boobs, evolution would probably have given all women big boobs. The diversity seems in accordance with preference - supply meets demand. And the same could be said of all physical features, female AND male.

Errr, except that there isn't enough fem/subs who are also natural redheads, dammit! And tall.... and petite.... and in range.... Oh forget it, "perfect" is unrealistic! lol again.

Focus.

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/19/2006 12:05:55 PM   
Petruchio


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quote:

I cant believe these posts, what wuses, such political correctness, you mean I am the only Dom who absolutely adores big boobs and thinks it is an important part of a near perfect slave!!


I adore perfectly shaped breasts, not merely big boobs.

I suppose it's the difference between a gourmet and a gourmand.
Americans like to eat a lot, the French like to eat well.

Or, put another way:
Two women leave a restaurant and one says, "The food was just terrible."
The other one says, "Yes, and such small portions, too."





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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/19/2006 2:44:25 PM   
Oberonrex


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quote:

ORIGINAL: amayos

In endless love, selfless and fully willing to sacrifice anything for my happiness. Willing to give up her soul, cast away all her possessions and ties to follow me anywhere, or suffer anything for my gain. And she loves and loves, without end; did I mention that already?

Those are the ideal ingredients for a slave...and rare they are.


I like this and I also like what was said by SadistDaddy. For me, the perfect one has the intellect, the chemistry, and the communications to serve in a way that sets a challenge to others; that complements me and my life; and enriches it by their presence and their service. If that mental/spiritual component comes in a package that is lithe, well proportioned, and with smaller breasts, then I may just be in Valhalla...

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/19/2006 11:41:17 PM   
omaha68108


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Status: offline 		has prlde in her master/dom . to obey .to serve with out the asking to love with out the wanting .as for perfect i dont think any one or any thing can be .

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RE: For experienced Doms only - 1/20/2006 4:28:39 AM   
KittenWithaTwist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mauigurrlxxx

How do you define the perfect,or near perfect, slave? (i.e. intellect, ethics, emotionally impaired, big boobs?)


I don't. There's no such thing as perfect, so why dwell on the concept at all? Instead, I'll think about where I want to go and where I wish to be and hope that someone I love can compliment those desires.

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