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Domms, Maters what do You look for in first Impressions?? - 7/23/2004 5:30:06 PM

knees2you

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Domms, Masters. I am knees2You and I was wondering
What do You look for as far as presentation when First being contacted by a Sub/Slave

Sincerely, eyesofAslave

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RE: Domms, Maters what do You look for in first Impress... - 7/24/2004 12:44:00 AM

Sinergy

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Hello,

I will take a stab at this one.

For me, I want her to express the spark of intelligence and humanity, rather than a list of D/s, BDSM, or sexual interests. I am interested in knowing why she decided to contact me, as opposed to the other zillions of Dominants out there looking for submissives.

Intelligence, grace, manners, humor. I want to say "the usual" here but it might be like that uncommon phenomenon referred to as "common sense."

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RE: Domms, Maters what do You look for in first Impress... - 7/24/2004 5:24:35 AM

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What do You look for as far as presentation when First being contacted by a Sub/Slave

A nude photo and a recent bank statement.

*wink*

To be quite honest, I really don't think it matters all that much what form your initial contact takes. I try to reserve all judgments until at least a long IM chat and a phone call, which I will have with almost anyone.

If you really want some advice, here goes: Be honest, be yourself. If you are trying to "land" a man, take the time and expense to get a really good picture taken, as men are very visual. If you have a sense of humor, show it. Don't be afraid to show your intelligence or your confidence. Spell check.

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Taggard

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RE: Domms, Maters what do You look for in first Impress... - 7/25/2004 2:03:13 PM

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Like Taggard says, spell check helps (though we all make smelling pistakes at times).

I want to know "why me". Sure I'm a wonderful guy who any woman should be bowing down to me and begging for my collar but that's not universally realised. What about my proflile or posting caught your eye?

If writing to see if we might be compatible, do you have what I'm looking for and do you know it? What is your current relationship situation, how old are you, whereabouts do you live, what are you looking for and if you don't know why don't you just come over and beg to be collared? (A lot of this could be on a profile and I don't mind being referred to it.)

Intelligence. Not humour particularly - not on the first contact. A knowledge of yourself and your current stage in your journey (even if that is "I'm totally lost"). Some reason why I can believe you are real and not just another time-waster.

Does that help?

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RE: Domms, Maters what do You look for in first Impress... - 7/25/2004 11:17:31 PM

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Every guy posting should be honest. If you are looking, and a female sub contacts you, it doesn't matter what she writes. You will answer her. Where it goes from there varies. She may not be worth a second response.

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