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Collar Ceremony - 8/23/2005 4:23:25 PM

bbwsophia

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Greetings to everybody:
I'm new at this lifestyle. After a long time searching for "the ONE", I found a wonderful Master. We have been building a strong relationship and now we feel its time to collar me. I have read about some kind of ceremonies to do when a slave get her collar. We want this to be really special to both of us. I feel ready to take this step and want to do something special. My Master agreed so Im looking for advice. Have anyone here performed this kind of ritual? What kind of ceremony do you recomend?
Thanks to everyone for your time and your advise.

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PD. Excuse me for my english, I speak mostly in spanish, so Im practicing my written english.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/23/2005 4:40:22 PM

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Sophia,
Your English is much better than my Spanish. (And you spell better than some of the others on this site that have lived here all their lives and know nothing but English.)
I would suggest that you look thru here and contact 'Iron Bear' or 'EmeraldSlave2'. I have never collared a slave and both of them seem to be very knowledgable about this lifestyle.
Good luck.

< Message edited by OscarHargraves -- 8/23/2005 4:41:21 PM >

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/23/2005 4:56:51 PM

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Hi OscarHargraves
Thanks for your advise. I'll try to contact them and ask them for some advise. To the other members of the forum, feel free to make any sugestions. Any comments of suggestions will be welcomed.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/23/2005 10:03:13 PM

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Sophia,
If you contact me I have one collering ceremony which is quite beautiful and it is the basis of the one I used. I'd be happy to let you have it... Congratulations lass of how things have progressed.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/23/2005 10:36:45 PM

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En lo personal, no me agrada mucho esta descripción de ceremonia. A lo mejor a tí sí.

The collaring ceremony

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/24/2005 5:01:02 AM

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Before pet and I attended the Houston BDSM HPEP BALL of 2005, I gave her a purse. In the purse was the collar which I myself put around her neck. The funny thing is that she never knew it was a collar untill I took it out of the purse. Because of the the leather strapping, she thought it was the shoulder strap as the purse didn't have one on the outside. Any how, she ended up being collard by yours truely and has made me very proud ever since.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/24/2005 6:20:20 AM

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Hey that's awesome of you to say. But as far as collaring, every time for me has been done in a parking lot with just me and them. If I recall correctly, Castlerealm has a pretty good description and if you do a web search for "collaring ceremonies" you should be able to pull some stuff up.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/24/2005 4:49:48 PM

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Thanks for your helpful comments.
Emeraldslave2: my Master and i wanted that moment to be private, no witnesses, because this is an intimate matter, but we want to have some kind of ritual. I had made some search and I found interesting things. We think that maybe we can include elements from various ceremonies to make one of our own. Thanks again for your suggestion.

Fangsnfeet: Thanks for sharing your story, is fun and nice. Spontaneity is wonderful

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/24/2005 4:52:48 PM

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To IronBear
Sir:
I send you a messege with my email address if you wish to send the ceremony there. If you wish to share it here in the forum it will be wonderful.
Respectfully
bbwsophia

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/24/2005 4:56:35 PM

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For me personally,

The most intimate private setting that you could have is for you, as the submissive/slave to decide what YOU want as your ceremony. It helps in that you can signify you bond with your Master, and signal your act of free will in giving yourself to your Master.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 8/24/2005 8:41:02 PM

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sophia lass, if you wish to post it, I have no objections. It is my personal website/home page which can be viewed by all..

For me, I'm a ritualist and a ceremonialist (heh Lodge training), so any collering will be done with as much ceremony and pomp and pagent as I can muster including her initial 10 lashes of a Gorean slave whip. After which I'll allow her to bask in her new status by serving the guests refresments after which she will kneel beside me so I can indulge myself by feeding her treats. ....

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